Water cooling advice
I believe the on /off would be a separate channel on the radio. I have purchased a small water pump off ebay. It was 7 volt, but I think you may need a valve on the out put. This way you could throttle the output to make it look realistic or a large line on the output side to make it sputter and fart realistically.
I think the valve would give you more options for output. The more experienced folks could give you more info
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